Saturday, December 26, 2009

Britton's 1st ChRiStMaS

We are so bLeSsEd to have such wonderful fRiEnDs and amazing FaMiLy. Thank you all for making oUr and Britton's ChRiStMaS a joyous and fun-filled time!

Leaving out the MiLk, CoOkIeS and CaRrOts

Britton with his FaVoRiTe gift from Grandma and Grandpa

with his lOvIng P
FaMiLy Christmas PhOtO at June's
Britton's early BiRtHdAy GiFt
with Mimi and Pa
LoViNg on AuNt Ne
Playing "hOrSeY" with "Uncle" Jimmy

Tuesday, December 22, 2009

Voices for the Voiceless

Just when I think that perhaps it was my voice and not His telling us to open up our hearts to adoption I randomly come across things like these. This video is from All God's Children International and is so touching. Kyle and I have actually looked into this agency, but they, like most, do not focus on Jamaican adoptions. Perhaps our lives are not ready for this amazing gift of adopting right now, but I know it will be.

Monday, December 21, 2009

CrAzy Christmas TiMe!!


First off, thank you all so much for your thoughts, prayers, e-mails, text, and calls to check on Britton. He turned out to have a rare strand of a bacterial infection. It was not any of the many things they tested for and all we know for sure is that his white blood cell count was way too high. The shots did what they were suppose to and he was said to be "clear" from the infection on Tuesday. We made another visit to the doctor on Saturday and now poor baby has a bad chest cold and ear infections, yes again, this is the 4th time!

Being that Britton and myself were sick and feeling so crummy this weekend we had to forgo our trip with Rhonda for Christmas in Indiana. I was so disappointed that Britton would be missing out on visiting with everyone, but I know he would have been miserable. Our luck he would have gotten all the other small kids sick too! Kyle and I are hoping to make it to IN soon!

On a much more positive side Britton is growing up so fast. (To be honest this saddens me greatly!!) He is doing everything he should be for his age and then some. He loves to walk holding on to furniture or someone's hands. He enjoys playing with his fire-truck from Andrea and dancing/clapping to his Mickey Mouse Clubhouse CD. He is such the daredevil! He likes to climb into his Pottery Barn Chair, throw the pillow into the floor and jump from the chair onto the pillow on the floor....he finds this very funny. It is so hard for me to believe that he will turn 1 months old on Christmas Eve! It is even more crazy to think that our little baby will turn one in just a little over a month!

Being silly with P

I LOVE his silly faces!

Our little Hokie :)

First time in his big boy carseat

He has discovered that the dishwasher...

is climbable! Oh Dear!!

But for right now...
We are all looking forward to Christmas here in the Cincere household. Our decorations are up, presents wrapped and we are ready for the traveling this season will involve for us. Britton discovered the gifts under the gifts under the tree just yesterday. The gift he decided to play with was of course not even his! Let's hope his Daddy's present is not too damaged! :) We're excited to see what Britton thinks of all of this craziness! He has enjoyed hearing several Christmas stories and especially enjoys waving the books around when we finish. What a special time of year this is. As Kyle and I celebrate this season and all that it truly means we feel even more blessed to share it with our son. We hope you all have a very Merry Christmas! We hope to post some pictures of our holiday celebrations throughout this weekend.

Found a gift to play with

Christmas come soon!!

Friday, December 4, 2009

Prayers for our Baby boy Please...

I know that we have been once again lacking in the updates here in the blog world! I would love to take the time to upload new pictures and tell the funny stories of our now walking (while holding on to things) precious baby, but they will have to wait. Britton has had an ear infection and staph infection for about 6 days now and a temperature that he could not get rid of for three days ow. When I called the Children's Hospital they told us there was no need to bring him in to be seen unless he temperature was at 105. We did anyways! It turns out that though Britton appears to be fine as he is laughing, playing, and being very mobile he is one sick little boy. His white blood cell count is way too high showing signs of a bacterial infection, perhaps mono. I have no idea how an infant gets mono, and hope that is not what it turns out to be. Rhonda, Kyle's mom, took Britton to Dr. Chamber's office today and he was given a shot. It was actually three different shots that had to be injected into his muscle. We have an appointment tomorrow to see if the shots are working if not they will have to draw blood to see more detailed results. If they are not showing improvement then he will need to be hospitalized, which is a huge concern to me. I don't want to even imagine my poor little boy in the hospital for a long stay. Kyle and I would like to ask for your prayers for Britton. Prayers that he gets well soon and that this shot does work. Prayers that God is in control and can comfort our baby. We will keep you all updated on his status and hope this is just a bump in the road for Britton and passes quickly.

Sunday, November 8, 2009

Is This Your Son?

The sweet Johnson family is sharing "B's"story with all of us in hope that you may be the family he is needing. Celebrate in Orphan Sunday and read to see if this is your future gift....

I would like to introduce you all to my next little LOVE!! Today, Orphan Sunday, I'm advocating for "Handsome B". "B" is an adorable 8 year old boy that has so much promise and such a bright future IF ONLY he had a family to call his own. You see...B is one of the 147 Million Orphans living in this world WAITING for a family to PICK HIM so that he has a chance to live up to all that God has in store for him.B's story broke my heart when I read it...You see....I found B's picture BEFORE I ever left to go and pick up our Lucy Lane...I saw him one night late on my computer screen and turned to my hubby and said, "Oh, MY...He's beautiful!! Couldn't we adopt an 8 year old boy?" My hubby gave me his normal smile and reminded me that we were getting ready to go and pick up our new daughter....BUT I decided I'd look for him while I was at Hannah's Hope Orphanage anyways. His beautiful eyes just spoke to me...He had such an innocence and sweetness about him....Well, upon arriving at HH to get our Lucy Lane..I discovered that he didn't live at HH yet...He was still living with his mother UNTIL room became available in the orphanage. 
Now, today, B is still with his Mom...During the Rainy Season in Ethiopia, there isn't much movement...so B will be moved to HH when there is room for him...Either way, I couldn't imagine the HUGE blessing it is for him to be able to live these last few months WITH his mother..I could tell from the pictures that they love each other deeply, but yet, she can't keep him. She must let him go!! I just can't imagine the pain. You see...B was part of a 2 parent home when his father lost his life in a construction accident...B lost his father, and his mother now has no way to care for him due to extreme poverty...I understand that since he is signed with HH that they will supplement his food and care UNTIL he arrives at HH to live. He's already experienced such great loss, he deserves a HOME!!! He deserves to know WHERE his next meal will come from....His mother deserves to know that her son will be taken care of...
I witnessed while in Ethiopia ANOTHER Mom bringing her daughters to HH to get photographed for "potential" adoptive parents to see....This mother's heart was so HUGE for her girls...She had them all dressed up in their finest of clothing, and she looked on so proudly as they were being photographed....B's Mom is no different...She dressed him in his finest of clothing KNOWING FULL WELL why he'd be getting his picture taken...B also being old enough to know exactly WHY the pictures were being taken too...I can't imagine their grief and pain...BUT there is hope for B....There is hope in YOU!! 
Someone will have the opportunity to fly to Ethiopia where this little boy will be waiting...You will be united with your new son and you both will rejoice in the fact that you are finally together....You will then have the opportunity to meet B's Mom...She will come to say goodbye to you both...You will hug and cry together BECAUSE you both will love the same son. As B's new parent you will take him on his first plane ride, you will hold his hand as he leaves the only world he ever knew, you will fly him into a new world filled with opportunity and hope......You will take this boy and introduce him to his first HOUSE...You will take him to his first grocery where food is in abundance for the first time in his life....You will watch his eyes light up the first time he experiences air conditioning or the first time he is able to pick out his own clothes....You will also hold him tight as he grieves his mother...He will cry!! He will miss her!! He will want to make sure that she is ok....BUT you will hold him and tell him everything will be OK...He will learn to trust you....BUT for now...He is still waiting for that call to come...that he is being moved to HH BECAUSE a family is coming to get him....He must go and he must find a home!! Do you have room?? Will you make room?

B is said to be healthy, active and right on target for his age...He is said to love football and he is described as being VERY BRIGHT!!! His smile reminds me so much of my 7 1/2 year old...They both have giants smiles that can light up a room...I think of HOW innocent my 7 year old is AND how much I LOVE her age...She is independent, yet she still needs me so much!! It is the best of both worlds at this age....An 8 year old boy still has SO MUCH life to live...There is still so much innocence in those eyes....And, I can already imagine him in his first ever soccer uniform playing on a team for the first time in his life...

So, tonight, on this Orphan Sunday, I'm asking you all MOST IMPORTANTLY to pray!! Pray this child finds the forever family he was intended to have....No child deserves to be waiting this long...EVEN THOUGH I think it has been the LORD HIMSELF that allowed this mother and son to have all this extra time togehter.....BUT...now it is time for him to go home...It is time for him to head to HH where his every need can be met while he waits for YOU to show up and pick him up....Will you do it??????
2nd....Will you please pass this along to whom ever has slightly ever seemed interested in adoption...Will you post it to your own blogs or sites?? Together through prayer and technology we can BRING THIS HANDSOME YOUNG BOY HOME!!!
**If you would like to inquire about Handsome Bthen please contact: Megan Palmer, her email ismpalmer@allgodschildren.org or by phone at 971-244-1461.


***You can also read more about Handsome B by reading my sister's post atwww.ordinaryheroblog.blogspot.com We are partnering and are determined to find this cutie HIS FOREVER FAMILY!!! As he sits in Ethiopia tonight, he has no idea that some crazy American women are determined to beg, plead and pray him to his family...I know HIS family is out there....and I'm praying that God will connect the dots like he always does....I know God has a wife someday for this boy and children will be born because he was given a chance to live and survive!! An entire generation will be changed forever BECAUSE someone stepped up to the plate and adopted Handsome B!!! Together...with the Lord's help...WE CAN MAKE THIS HAPPEN!!!!
***Thank you for your time and your prayers...AND, I know B and his mom thank you too...kj
"I will not leave you as orphans, I will come to you." John 14:18
"Children are a gift from God." PSALM 127:3
"Now faith is being sure of what we hope for, and cetain of what we do not see."
Hebrews 11:1

Saturday, November 7, 2009

An Adoption Cause

This family is trying to raise money to bring home a sweet girl from Ethiopia. Watch this very heart tugging video of facts and comments and check out their fundraising shirts. You can follow their journey at longingforafrica.blogspot.com I'll be sporting mine soon. :)




Sunday, November 1, 2009

fOoD, and dOgS, and hAiRcUtS, OH MY!

Needless to say this weekend has been packed full of fun activities and  little bit of stress on my part! Our cookout with the Potter's on Friday had to be postponed because Autumn was still feeling sick. Hopefully she is feeling much better now! We miss spending time with those two! We decided that we would go to Cracker Barrel for dinner. Britton enjoyed eating exactly what I was! He loved my vegetable platter of potatoes, mac-n-cheese, carrots, and dumplings!

 Britton decided that he wanted to go to bed thirty minutes early so that was a nice surprise for us! Saturday we had planned on going to Franklin's pUmPkInFeSt early, but Britton took a 2 hour nap! Once he woke up we headed out. There were so many people there! Once Britton gets a little older it will be so much fun for him. The People's Church had set up an entire section of free games, pony rides, tea parties and bouncy houses for the kids. Britton loved strolling around and eating Honey Nut Cheerios. :) 



We loaded up and headed over to Hank and Rhonda's for hAlLoWeEn! We decided Britton would be a puppy for his first Halloween. Being that our baby is so tall, we had to get a 12-18 month costume! He was not the biggest fan of the furry hood so this resulted in our pictures being not so smiley. He enjoyed looking at all the trick-or-treaters and especially those who waved at him or patted his little puppy head! He was getting a little tired so I took him inside to sit with Kyle and Hank, who were of course watching the UT game. By the time I sat him on Kyle's lap and got his gymmies, he was asleep! 



Today after church we had planned on getting Britton's hair cut. We went to Otter's to eat lunch and wait for Snip-Its to open. We went down to Snip-Its and found about a 45 minutes wait. It was almost Britton's turn to get his cut when I went to get my wallet and realized that it was missing. I went nuts! I went back to Otters and checked and no luck! When I got back to Snip-Its Britton was in the chair and screaming! He was not happy about this event, at all. The poor lady tried her best, but he refused to keep his head still for more than a second. We managed to get the sides and back "clipped." I wonder if this counts as his first real hair cut? I hope not because the only picture we got was after we left Snip-Its and sat him on the bench outside. :( 



When we got home I spent way too many hours making calls to SunTrust, Jcrew and other places that might be seeing a sudden jump in charges! I e-mailed Paula and Stephanie and had to wait. I know that I was horrible and hateful to Kyle as I was so upset that my wallet/checkbook was not only missing, but went missing out of Britton's bag while he was in the nursery at church! So after much dread, annoyance, and being in a bad mood I got an e-mail from Paula, while she was at the Titans game, letting me know she had my wallet. Apparently when they went to change Britton's diaper the wallet was taken out to get to what they needed and then forgotten. I guess this was my test from God to see how I would handle myself in the face of a little stressor...I think I failed this one. Hopefully I will learn that though something may seem like a big deal, it will pass. I am too blessed to let such things put a damper on my day. So that being said, Yea God for my beautiful baby boy even if he does scream at a haircut appointment. Yes God, for a wonderful husband who will allow me to be yucky when I've had a bad day and still love me. And Yea God, for a found wallet and being tested. I promise to do better next time!

One of his pictures from his 9 month session :)